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A big man turns me on

About "You whore," he said. "You think too much."

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After a couple of hours, we were getting close to exhausting the discussion on John Ralston Saul's The Collapse of Globalism when Don, who was slouched deep into the sofa corner opposite me, yawned and stretched. His raised arm drew up his sweater just enough to expose a generous sliver of belly.

Rounded, peppered with dark hairs. I thought of you.

Board-flat male bellies, six-packs, washboard abs are all the rage these days, but what does a flat belly tell a woman about a man? In my experience, it says: here’s a man whose play is all workouts, who pays more attention to his own body than to mine, and who might even follow a critical survey of my own little pillow of tummy fat with the advice to "try the ab-cruncher."

No, thank you.

A rounded belly speaks of a man of moderation in his appetites, who enjoys work and play in salutary balance and who is not averse to a little self-indulgence either at board or in bed. He’ll let a single malt pool on his tongue and savour the way cheesecake melts from crumbly to creamy in the heat of his mouth. A big man can dally with a woman for hours without ever having to check his watch to see if it's time to hit the gym. He knows what constitutes a satisfying workout.

A big man could pin me down good and proper and show me who's boss.

So when Don stretched and I saw his skin, I thought of you.

I barely restrained myself from leaning over and licking him.


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UPDATE:

Read Salon in praise of big beefy men. Mmmmmmmmmm.

Thanks to spiritualmonkey for that link.

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Listening to: Dance Me to the End of Love, Madeleine Peyroux
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From:ihavemeaning
Date:November 7th, 2005 05:27 am (UTC)
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A big man could pin me down good and proper and show me who's boss.

Oh, the glory of a person with such a physicality. Yum.
From:(Anonymous)
Date:January 5th, 2006 08:28 pm (UTC)
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i once made love to a women with a small body im alarge man so my penis would not fit so she try very hard to get it all inside of her i must have pounded her for about 8 hrs.an dshe loved it i love a women that is small
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 7th, 2005 08:03 am (UTC)

my hairy rotound belly

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Thankyou for reasuring me that my belly is sexy and attatched to a very sensual man who doesnt even need a watch to tell him its time to hug his lover and kiss her softly.
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 8th, 2005 01:20 am (UTC)
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We Big Bellied Men have a lot to offer apparently.
SO, DTG, if ever we should find ourselves in the same book group, and if I should stretch and reveal my rounded belly, please don't restrain yourself. Take a hint from the nike adverts and Just Do It!
But please, don't try and make me appreciate cheesecake.

Freddy
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From:spiritualmonkey
Date:November 8th, 2005 08:53 am (UTC)
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As a guy who is a bit soft in the middle (but who can still drop and do 20), that was an incredibly sexy post. Thank you.

I think you'll really get a charge out of this old Salon.com article on the sexiness of barrel-chested guys.

One of my fave articles. Robert Mitchum is my idol. Especially his infamous "Are you fucking kdding me" smirk in the photo of him being arrested for possession of ganja.

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From:nicebluejournal
Date:November 8th, 2005 09:12 am (UTC)
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Thanks so much. You're right about that Salon article. Says it all for me with lots more smarts than I can muster. I'm posting a permanent link because it's time to look at big men again.

"They were men who'd let you sit on their laps and bury your face in their rumpled ties without making you feel like you had some pathetic daddy complex -- even if you did. They had meat on their bones, and you could practically knead it through their shirts. They were bigger, so you seemed smaller."

Yessssssssssss.

DTG xxoo
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From:spiritualmonkey
Date:November 8th, 2005 09:15 am (UTC)
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:D :D :D

I really need a Bobby M. icon, badly!
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 8th, 2005 03:47 pm (UTC)
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Tummies can also be nice little pillow-like mounds for relaxing or releiving one's head from vigorous up and down movements.

But you're quite right. It's often the difference between a man who approaches the meal in front of him with a plan for success and a man who dives in with an acute zest for tasty meals.
It is machination against appetite.
I'd sooner choose the partner with a selfish appetite myself.

All the better to eat you with my dear.

-O.
From:springtimelover
Date:November 9th, 2005 10:20 am (UTC)

Beautiful.

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Your post is why there is an Internet, very nice thank you.
From:tonycomstock
Date:November 9th, 2005 12:08 pm (UTC)

Bodies Beautiful

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I especially like mismatches – A man, broad shouldered, narrow hipped, and lean; body tanned from outdoor work, mounting his pale and plump lover. Or a German weight-lifter type, bald and course being sucked off by a sleek pin-up.
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 9th, 2005 08:10 pm (UTC)

nice writing

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hi PT! just a short note to say i've been lurking a while. I do so love your writing that i think is smart and smutty in a good way. snarky must not have any good sex to compare to the writing she criticises so readily.
http://www.blogspot.com/frenchysfollies
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From:rollergirl_24
Date:November 9th, 2005 09:45 pm (UTC)
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i loved everything about this post- very well put! I'll remember these words in my dating escapades...

"A big man can dally with a woman for hours without ever having to check his watch to see if it's time to hit the gym. He knows what constitutes a satisfying workout. "
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From:nosgirl
Date:November 9th, 2005 11:23 pm (UTC)
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I've never liked men with overly muscled bodies. I definitely agree, all too often they are more concerned with their own physical appearence than anything else. I had an ex who was an ex high school and college football player. He was 280 pounds of muscle, but was dim in the brains department. Muscles aren't that particularly sexy anyway. I never could understand why women went ga-ga eyed over Vin Diesl and the like.

For me, my interest is in healthy guys. Someone who doesn't particularly care if he's ripped or has a little bit of softness, but wants himself to be healthy. There's that certain balence that is a must. A guy with some meat on his bones is different than a man who refuses to take care of himself and lets himself go.
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From:nosgirl
Date:November 9th, 2005 11:34 pm (UTC)
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P.S. I absolutely love the way you write, so I'll be adding you to my friends list. If you don't mind, of course. :)
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 10th, 2005 01:56 am (UTC)

big men

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God Yessssss. I talk about this all the time when girlfriends drool over the hairless rock-hard abs and tiny, concave sided butts walking by - they can have 'em. Give me a hairy, rounded, chubby man with a slight bit of man-boob or barrel-chest. Love it. Can't get enough of him - feels like a MAN on me and inside of me - not some hairless inflatable.

Thank you once again for a great post. My love monkey is sleeping at the moment but I'm gonna lick him awake, as suggested.
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 10th, 2005 03:19 pm (UTC)

my nobodaddy

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I'm sort of an equal opportunity employer of male body types. I like 'em long and skinny, short and squat, roundish around the middle, it's all good as long as the man emanates strength and confidence.

Your post reminds me of my most recent (illicit) lover. He has a godly yummy belly and fluffy white seraphim pubic hair.

Thanks, DTG

Chelsea Girl
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 11th, 2005 05:18 am (UTC)

I LOVE...

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...big belly men! Not huge belly men, just some nice padding with a soft hair. Yum!
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 11th, 2005 12:32 pm (UTC)
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This post reminded me so much of how I look at my husband, that I decided to leave you a kiss :)

My husband is a very tall and very large-build man. Not fat, but big enough that when he wants to pin me down I don't have a hope in hell of escape (just the way I like it too, LOL). He worries that he isn't thin or some such nonsense, and I just tell him that I love his belly, and that I would go crazy if he spent more time at the gym than he does with me! I have plenty of friends who are into having muscles, I know how much time it takes to build and maintain that kind of body. I would rather have a roundish husband than none at all ;) Beides, I LOVE to cook, and I would be highly insulted if he couldn't idulge in the incredible dishes I prepare for fear of gaining a pound!

I may have to send him to read this post, to prove I am not the only one who loves a man with a little padding 'round the middle.

Cheers!

Temptation
http://temptation-unleashed.blogspot.com
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 11th, 2005 06:40 pm (UTC)

I'm with you

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I've so got a thing for men just like that. For a long time that's been my preference. Although I admit experience has made me less picky, my eyes and imagination are still drawn to that look.

-OdalisqueK
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 16th, 2005 02:05 pm (UTC)

plushy makes me gushy

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I so love a shorter than average man with adequate meat on his bones to give him a belly, and if he's got manly body hair and is bald with a goatee...I'm just all his!


pinkpolarbear
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From:nicebluejournal
Date:November 16th, 2005 02:37 pm (UTC)

Re: plushy makes me gushy

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Thank you. I'm betting you just made a whole subset of mankind very happy with that comment.

*peering hard at your URL* Heh.

DTG xxoo
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From:felisdemens
Date:November 23rd, 2005 06:39 am (UTC)
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Oh, I am SO right there with you. My boyfriends both have rounded Buddha bellies, and I love it.
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From:nicebluejournal
Date:November 24th, 2005 06:14 am (UTC)
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Both? Two?! Lucky you.

;)

DTG xxoo
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From:felisdemens
Date:November 24th, 2005 09:52 am (UTC)
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I certainly think so. :)
From:(Anonymous)
Date:December 9th, 2005 10:44 am (UTC)

thanks!

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Hi there...I've come into the comments here very late, but what you wrote about 'rounded belly' men is kinda true. I'm youngish but not muscled (anymore), and I don't consider myself a great lover, but neither am I totally hopeless in bed. I know I should exercise and keep fit more, but yeah, I believe I also indulge my woman (or women) and their bodies more than I indulge my own.

Thanks again for a good read.

tsb
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From:nicebluejournal
Date:December 9th, 2005 11:58 am (UTC)

Re: thanks!

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My pleasure!

;)

DTG xxoo
From:(Anonymous)
Date:January 9th, 2006 09:13 pm (UTC)

Re: thanks!

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Reading this has been so refreshing to me!

I was married to so a man for 15 years who checked his weight, fat count and reflection several time a day! To make matters worse, he checked mine, too. Unfortunately, I was brought down by all this and had a very poor body image. Mind you I am 5'5" and typically weighed around 110.

I'm now lucky enough to have met someone who makes me feel like I have a beautiful body (more at 120 now). He eats healthy, works out, and has the sexiest rounded belly I have ever seen. I can't keep my hands off of him!

So... I came to realize that what you are all saying here about men being more interested in their work-outs is so true. My ex-husband was always so worried about how rock-hard his body was and checking himself out while we were in bed, that I felt many times he didn't really even realize I was there.

I told my guy to stay healthy, but never, ever lose his belly - sexy is much more about how you feel about yourself than what some magazine dictates!



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